i've come to an understanding that no matter how bad your friend is. whether she hides a big secret from you. or she is going to elope. or she is going to be a second wife to someone. or whatever that she is or will be doing that is bad.
just stick close to her. advice her if necessary. but important thing is, do not alienate her. or despise her. she is just like the rest of us. human beings. we do make mistakes.
do not talk bad behind her. because what she is going thru might someday happen to us or our family members.
this is what i call as true friend. real friend. sahabat.
p/s: i guess when you grow older, you think differently.